The Baader-Meinhof Phenomenon is when you learn about something new and then all of a sudden it seems to pop up everywhere. Never is this more true than for pregnant women and new mothers.
Once you become pregnant, the whole world starts having babies. You notice "Baby On Board" signs in traffic, you can't help but glance at a woman's growing belly across the aisle in Target, and suddenly you find yourself judging everyone's name as if it's a genuine possibility for your offspring. Everything has to do with babies, and more and more birth announcements show up on your Facebook newsfeed than you ever thought possible.
I'm not immune to this anomaly. I know of at least 8 babies that have been born in the last six weeks, with more pregnant friends still awaiting their turn. (Seriously, what was happening last Fall, people? Did they put something in the water?)
If you aren't pregnant yourself, chances are good that you know someone who is or have had a baby somewhat recently. So, I'm embracing this phase and gonna be talking a LOT about babies in the upcoming posts. Breastfeeding, c-sections, body image, and more. (Comment below on what YOU'D like to hear about!) It's a wonderfully terrifying time of life that continues to bewilder me with purpose and pride.
I wear a lot of hats. I'm a wife, a writer, and a marriage counselor, with personal interests in cooking, films, and puppetry. (Okay, not that last one. I was just throwing in a curve ball to see if you were awake. If you didn't catch it, go pour yourself another cup of coffee and hug someone.)
But, of all the titles I hold, mother is my favorite by far.
With so many mothers in the world, there still seems to be a lack of honest stories being shared about real women experiencing it. I find myself cringing with insecurity all too often, wondering if I'm doing enough or doing it right instead of just enjoying the act of doing it at all.
As my life shifts and changes, as my heart grows to allow for the capacity to love yet more for this newest baby in my life, I want to remind all you mamas out there that HEY - we're doing this thing called motherhood, and we're not alone.
In a world where we can be inundated with babies and growing bellies all around us, let's not forget that behind each little creature is a mother who is trying to keep it all together.
You're not alone, mama, let's chat.